Summer Chaos: Plan to Pause & Do Good

During the summer, schedules and routines vary week to week or even day to day, leaving parents feeling mentally overloaded sprinkled with a constant fear of leaving a child somewhere. I would encourage every parent to take a deep breath, pause and refocus on what is important in life. After weeks of our whole family feeling out of sorts, I was inspired to be present in the moment and do something to teach my children how to be kind and connect with others in our community. Sometimes we as a family can’t tackle the issues around homelessness but maybe we can bring a smile or comfort or acknowledgement to another human being.

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Courtney, 9 and Billy, 7 at Civic Center Park in Denver, CO with their Blessing Bags

We started with a simple discussion about how we should make “Blessing Bags” or care kits for the homeless that we as a family could hand out. I asked my children, “what items do you think someone who is homeless might need?” I was surprised and encouraged to hear my children’s thoughtful responses. My son Billy, who is 7, suggested ponchos because of all the unprecedented rain we have been having in Denver this summer so homeless individuals could stay dry. My daughter Courtney, who is 9, suggested we buy sunscreen since typically it is very sunny in Colorado. My kids colored bags and cards signed with all our first names. We decided to take a trip to the local Dollar Tree for supplies. We packed eight bags with a pair of socks, sunscreen, ponchos, toothbrush and toothpaste, various snacks, a bottle of water and a handmade card. We loaded up into the car and started to drive to search for individuals in need of our bags. My kids asked how we would know who to hand out our bags to. My husband, Steve, suggested we approach individuals who are holding up signs asking for help.

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Care kit items: wipes, trail mix, socks, tooth brush, tooth paste, beef jerky, energy bar, cookies, water, poncho and sunscreen

We pulled over our car and stopped at a gas station to hand out some bags to a man and woman. My daughter and I got out to hand them two bags. The lady was incredibly grateful and was very excited about the water because she had a 2-year-old asleep in a grocery cart covered by an umbrella. We didn’t see the child but both my daughter and I were surprised and saddened. We gave them extra bottles of water because that is what we could do in the moment.

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Blessing Bags colored by Jenny Emerson’s children

We went downtown to Civic Center Park and were able to hand out the rest of our remaining bags. My son got a fist bump thank you from one elderly homeless man with cataracts and the biggest toothless smile of gratitude. My daughter walked away saying we needed to bring more bags next time. I agreed.

As a family, we are committed to spreading kindness and making an impact in our community one small act at time. One year, for my daughter’s birthday party she chose to help a local animal shelter. My daughter asked her friends to bring dog and cat toys in lieu of gifts. We personally delivered the toys to the shelter and then toured the facility to see all the animals. She paid it forward to bring joy to animals instead of escalating the stuffed animal explosion in her room.

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Courtney with her dog and cat toy donations

Over the holidays, our family adopts a family. We select a family with similar aged children to ours and who wants us to personally deliver the gifts. We shop for gifts for each family member including toys, clothes and stocking stuffers. We wrap the gifts with both store-bought and personally decorated wrapping paper. We talk about how in our family, we can purchase all our basic needs like clothes and food as well as toys like stuffed animals and video games. By adopting a family, our family is helping others who might need support around the holidays.

Another free, impromptu activity is picking up trash at your local playground, neighborhood or school. Children love running around, picking up trash and helping the environment. We use protective gloves and each child has an individual grocery bag to collect trash. If your family wants to spread kindness in your community, one small act is all it takes!

More ideas —

1. Pay for the coffee of the person behind you in line

2. Put change in an expired meter

3. Hold the door for a stranger

4. Compliment a friend (or a stranger)

5. Write a thank you note to your postal carrier

6. Have a lemonade stand and donate profits

7. Bring flowers to someone special

8. Clean out your toys and donate

9. Write a letter to friend at camp or who has moved

What can you and your family learn from small acts of kindness? How can you plan to pause and do good with your family in your community?

Written by Jenny Emerson, CPA, Co-Founder & Co-Director of the Raising Kindness program with Spark the Change Colorado. Jenny is the mother of two children, an active community volunteer and lives in Denver, Colorado. Jenny is available for interviews.

The mission of Raising Kindness is to empower children and families to do good in their communities. To learn more about the Raising Kindness program, please visit us at http://www.sparkthechangecolorado.org/raising-kindness or follow us on Facebook/Instagram @raisingkindnessco.

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